5 Common Habits That Make People Instantly Dislike You

  • čas přidán 6. 05. 2019
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    A few recent Brie Larson interviews have caught the attention of Marvel fans. People have asked if the cast doesn’t get along with Brie, and even as an audience member it’s hard to sit through some of these interviews without cringing.
    Today I will talk about what you can learn from these situations, and how to prevent yourself from doing specific behaviour patterns, that can make people dislike you without you even intending or even realizing it.

    0:41 - Issue #1: Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation.
    1:15 - Issue #2: Sarcasm requires a “tell”
    4:33 - Issue #3: Don’t jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself.
    7:15 - Issue #4: You should not try to win each moment of banter.
    9:53 - Issue #5: Handling a compliment improperly
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Komentáře • 20 611

  • Livid Ramen
    Livid Ramen Před 52 minutami

    Well this is interesting.
    I am basically like Brie when I'm sober and trying to interact with people.
    LOL. I have no idea how to feel about this except, NOW I KNOW.
    Love Brie though, and Aubrey Plaza.

  • The Irishpanic
    The Irishpanic Před hodinou

    She was so humble before. It's like all the fans has gone to her head

  • Marshall Sanders
    Marshall Sanders Před hodinou

    Anybody else hear him say " & she can eat baby like nobody's business"

  • Ltpwnface
    Ltpwnface Před 2 hodinami

    She’s just very insecure and wants people to know how great she is so she isn’t exactly humble at all.

  • WeeItsNookies
    WeeItsNookies Před 2 hodinami +4

    Really not buying any of it. Her trying sarcasm and dry humor and failing at it would be believable if she wasn't a rabid f3min1st/$JW. A type of person known to be obnoxious and unpleasant. She really just is a cu_nt

  • Leto85
    Leto85 Před 4 hodinami

    3. You should not jump on every opportunity to call praise and attention to yourself.
    I wanted to say that I don't but by doing so I might give the wrong impression.

  • MS A
    MS A Před 5 hodinami

    8:53 usually i feel like this and its so hard for me to do your advice😧😧...but tnx for teaching that👍👍👍

  • Nuke777777
    Nuke777777 Před 5 hodinami

    its too late, I already hate her and told my mom about it

  • krvn prk
    krvn prk Před 6 hodinami

    brie just started, she'll be better with the others

  • X. V.
    X. V. Před 6 hodinami

    I feel like she's not trying to be liked, she's just being honest.

  • Ones B
    Ones B Před 7 hodinami

    Lmao she’s trying so hard to be charismatic but comes out annoying

  • anais florit
    anais florit Před 8 hodinami

    please everyone just leave brie alone oml

  • Insertnamehere
    Insertnamehere Před 8 hodinami

    Is it bad or good that I just watched this cause I hate Brie?

  • Jessu Erica Mari Bravante
    Jessu Erica Mari Bravante Před 8 hodinami

    okay, why was she doing this?

  • RainbowAlpaca
    RainbowAlpaca Před 9 hodinami

    Conclusion: Brie Larson is not funny or good at sarcasm.

    I still don't like her

  • __
    __ Před 9 hodinami

    I feel that I do a lot of these without even thinking.

  • Nam Nam
    Nam Nam Před 10 hodinami

    Honestly, I avoided this video for a very long time because I thought that it would just be another negative video. I dont like Brie, but she gets alot of unnecessary hate... She is just another actress/actor trying to fit in. Anyways I was pleasantly surprised and enjoyed the video! :)

  • catmeister
    catmeister Před 10 hodinami

    shes so awkward im literally cringing watching this

  • Hamza k
    Hamza k Před 11 hodinami

    Chris Pratt is a bae

  • brianr101010
    brianr101010 Před 13 hodinami

    Brie is very very cute and she has been so since I first saw her on the united states of tera, but watching her perform is frankly very painful as she tries to take herself so seriously she comes across as a monotone droning annoyance. I will make an exception as I just remembered a very enjoyable performance from her in Scott Pilgrim vs The world. Her acting and her singing ( she did do her own actual singing ) were perfect for the character she was portraying.

  • Dinkolish
    Dinkolish Před 13 hodinami

    Brie just needs a sausage

  • AllTimeFallOutAtTheChemicalDisco

    So I feel like this video was made by someone whove met me lmao

  • Kids Wragg
    Kids Wragg Před 13 hodinami +1

    #1: *Existing*

  • silvslim
    silvslim Před 13 hodinami

    Over the top is an American cultural expression. I don't recommend it outside the USA. It was very clear she was being sarcastic, and for a Brit she was being quite over animated.

  • Stefanie Faith
    Stefanie Faith Před 13 hodinami

    Please break down Russell Brand's interview!!!

  • Jared Jams
    Jared Jams Před 14 hodinami

    Brie is pretty Effin hot though

  • pavithran pavi
    pavithran pavi Před 15 hodinami

    What the hell, she is being her self....

    GRACE CRAFT Před 16 hodinami

    She Protect
    She Snap Back
    But most importantly
    She Think it a personal attack

  • Candy
    Candy Před 16 hodinami +2

    Leave her alone. She may have social anxiety.

  • Cryogenius333
    Cryogenius333 Před 17 hodinami

    If my reading was correct Brie grew up a real straight laced kid with a very good education.
    Ruffalo and RDJ may play Marvels Nerds, but in reality Brie is the Simon of these Chipmunks.

  • Bloom Potato
    Bloom Potato Před 17 hodinami

    Brie? Chill okay?

  • Avenzia K
    Avenzia K Před 17 hodinami

    I'm here to tell you I love Brie Larson and the cast of MCU
    okey bye now

  • BlodyKnifeGames
    BlodyKnifeGames Před 18 hodinami

    People just read "How To Win Friends And Influence People". For sure you won't regret it

  • ssCMi Miss
    ssCMi Miss Před 18 hodinami +1

    It's because she's a feminist, and most feminists aren't likable, or funny, and get offended by everything.

  • Heather L
    Heather L Před 18 hodinami +2

    I honestly don’t understand how are why people dislike her. I think she’s completely lovely and charming, with a wonderfully dry sense of humor. It’s obvious to me she is joking.

  • Kat
    Kat Před 19 hodinami

    I love info like this; I am fascinated by human communication (body, verbal, tone etc), and this stuff goes to show there's sooo much more to communication than what's on the surface

    INGSOC Před 19 hodinami

    I don't like brie larson, she is not right for the role of captain marvel.

  • Jacob
    Jacob Před 20 hodinami

    If you have high social status (fame, wealth, power) then this is much easier and you dont have to consciously think "ok move your head in a overly dramatic way and and counter the personal attack with a high pitch insult that will be precieved as a joke" it will come natural because at the end of the day your better than them

  • Tracy Radsvick
    Tracy Radsvick Před 20 hodinami

    You're essentially comparing the behaviors of two men to a woman, and women's intents are read as rude when trying to be humorous WAY more often than men. The fact that this analysis is about social norms and interpersonal communication yet doesn't touch base on this AT ALL shows ignorance to social relationships. At least you made an Aubrey comparison (yet this fails because Aubrey already has a REPUTATION for being sarcastic), but maybe consider how all of Brie's behaviors would be interpreted differently if she were male.

  • Tracy Radsvick
    Tracy Radsvick Před 20 hodinami

    This analysis is a little imbalanced because she's a woman in an interview with two men.

  • Fer A Soto
    Fer A Soto Před 22 hodinami

    She used to be likeable.

  • Buki Tee
    Buki Tee Před 22 hodinami

    I'm officially renaming this video "Kiss Russell Brand, Marry Chris Hemsworth, Kill Brie Larson"

  • Abc xyz
    Abc xyz Před 22 hodinami

    The interviewer at 6:28 was on the Flavor of Love charm school episode on doing a good interview. Hey honey!

  • Candi Warhol
    Candi Warhol Před 22 hodinami

    love her, but lately brie seems hangry AF 🤔😥

  • Dr. Ho Lee Phuk
    Dr. Ho Lee Phuk Před 22 hodinami +2

    Brie has been poisoned by feminism. She's a horrible person. She will end up as a desperately lonely and bitter cat lady when her acting career comes to a crashing halt.

  • Meng si
    Meng si Před 23 hodinami

    I am offended

  • Bhavya Nayak
    Bhavya Nayak Před 23 hodinami +1

    *Why am I here?*

  • mike pearson
    mike pearson Před dnem

    so basically american's are just simple

  • Instigator band
    Instigator band Před dnem

    Do russle brand interview

  • Stephanie Ripley
    Stephanie Ripley Před dnem

    Lol what a load of crap 😂

  • Superschokokeks
    Superschokokeks Před dnem

    5# You're breathtaking!
    No, You're breathtaking, all of you!

  • Bri D
    Bri D Před dnem

    Mark Zuckerberg has entered the chat....

  • VGM
    VGM Před dnem

    Step 1
    Don't be Brie Larson.

  • M. Sienno
    M. Sienno Před dnem

    Captain Marvel may be the most OP character in the MCU but also one of the newest members of Avengers... the actress feels, with all the expectations and peers she has to measure up to, under a lot of pressure ... I guess

  • ace lopez
    ace lopez Před dnem

    "I'm just honestly being myself." - the everlasting excuse.

  • senex250
    senex250 Před dnem

    She just has no humility

  • Catherine J.
    Catherine J. Před dnem

    Brie's way of delivering sarcasm only works when you're with the person(s) who already familiar with your sense of humor

  • Angelo Stevens
    Angelo Stevens Před dnem +1

    She's a horrible person and that's all there is to it.

  • Viviána
    Viviána Před dnem

    I feel like celebrities try too hard to be jovial, hyperactive and likeable. Celebrities like Keanu Reeves, Halle Berry, Natalie Portman and Rooney Mara who are more reserved come across as more relaxed. There's no need to be animated and garish in your interviews in order to grab attention. Talk shows feel like a competition of social skills sometimes. Everyone's comparing one to the other.

  • Nightmare Mischief
    Nightmare Mischief Před dnem

    Yes! Please do a Jack Russel interview breakdown. :)

  • Htoo Htet Aung
    Htoo Htet Aung Před dnem

    Yes got it I'm using these tips and go be awesome in conversations
    Later : ar.. *mean mugs people*

  • Cade Buchanan
    Cade Buchanan Před dnem

    Firstly: Teaching psychology by using sound bytes from Hollywood actors is amusing. Because Hollywood actors are the bastion of mental health right?. Secondly: So before we make any joke, off the cuff comment or use sarcasm we have to deeply analyse every word, inflection and maybe use a small hand mirror to check our facial reaction? (ps I typed all this in lowercase to mimic deadpan speech in order to confuse everyone).

  • Lou Salvador
    Lou Salvador Před dnem

    Watching her interviews in the context of the video make it more uncomfortable than it seems when you watch them independently.

  • Lou Salvador
    Lou Salvador Před dnem +1

    I wasn’t at all turned off or otherwise put off by her behavior at all though lol she’s just being a person...

  • Noelia SJ
    Noelia SJ Před dnem

    where was this when i was being bullied in high school

  • Niphredyl
    Niphredyl Před dnem +2

    Looking sincere while stating the over-the-top stuff I think is the funniest thing in the entire world. But no, people have to fit into a cookie cutter idea of diction and vocal expression - comedywise.

  • Ocean Breeze
    Ocean Breeze Před dnem

    I’m bored. Bye.

  • MRfisheri
    MRfisheri Před dnem

    Please do the Russell brand breakdown

  • Audraelynne Grimmelhaussen

    Having dated an Australian, I'm familiar with how at times they just love to take the piss out of someone but it's all just in good fun.

  • Hely
    Hely Před dnem

    She sometimes reminds me of that character "girl you wish you hadn't started a conversation with" from SNL's weekend update. Not sure why.

  • The Mighty Dash
    The Mighty Dash Před dnem

    How to make people dislike you... be a feminist.

  • Sheema Tran
    Sheema Tran Před dnem

    Who’s this girl which gladly I do not know her name sitting next to Chris in ET ?! She needs to grow up or shut up!

  • Sheema Tran
    Sheema Tran Před dnem

    Who’s this girl which gladly I do not know her name?! She needs to grow up or shut up!

  • xShiroooKun
    xShiroooKun Před 2 dny

    do the breakdown of the russell interview

  • Old Man with the Pale Eye and the Screaming Ear

    2:11 Yes, indeed, that is VERY American of you. Quite frankly, it's an annoying trait as well. Sounds like you're just pushing "LOOK AT ME, I'M SARCASTIC!!! LOOK AT MY SARCASM!!!" when you change your tone to that American degree.

  • Nicholas Strathern
    Nicholas Strathern Před 2 dny +1

    Good video, apart from the sarcasm bit, you are perpetuating the stereotype of Americans not understanding sarcasm, WE INVENTED SARCASM AND THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE, SO WHY ARE YOU TELLING US HOW THEY WORK?!

  • Dominik Černý
    Dominik Černý Před 2 dny

    So basically be kind and everything will be ok

  • hann j. michaels
    hann j. michaels Před 2 dny

    This made me realize I don't like Brie Larson

  • Chris Barnett
    Chris Barnett Před 2 dny

    I rarely ever use sarcasm. I can't remember the last time I used it. A fast wit and charisma are my tools.

  • Smeggy Poontang
    Smeggy Poontang Před 2 dny

    Bries' personality doesnt suit her body. Her personality more says : short chubby un hygenic person who has bright pink hair and a board that says 'death to all men'

  • G
    G Před 2 dny

    i did interpret the playful banter as chris taking a jab at brie and being annoyed with her

  • PoutineProductions
    PoutineProductions Před 2 dny

    What if she was bullied when she was younger? What if she secretly has a mental disorder?

  • leda Xias
    leda Xias Před 2 dny

    why was this in recommendations? pff XD But to sum this vid up
    1 Be positive
    2 share victory and glory
    3 give compliments back or simply say " thank you " with a smile.
    if you must know the do nots then
    4 DO NOT be a negative Nancy, Glory Hog, self absorb, overly sensitive person. BOOM sum over XD
    Honestly though. Have joy and be yourself. it's far better than being fake or insincere. Cause then you'll end up in a depression crying how " nobody knows the real you " and " only likes you for x reason " :O :DD

  • Deconverted Man
    Deconverted Man Před 2 dny

    Feminism ruined her, as it does everyone that drinks from the koolaid.

  • Nikki E.
    Nikki E. Před 2 dny

    I am not sure where to start here. I see that you picked one person and you used her as an example of every personality trait not to have if you want to have charisma. You pointed out other people like Russell Brand as examples of how to ace the same situation, and in that particular situation, I don’t happen to think that he did. I thought that there was veiled hostility in his reply and you could see it. Look I know you need to generate content to keep your business going, but really? I only recall you holding up one woman as an example of the right way to be and otherwise, you tore apart the personality and charisma of a woman and used men to do it with.

  • Darren Fleming
    Darren Fleming Před 2 dny

    you'd almost think she's a spoiled child from a rich family who's never learned to deal with people contradicting her because she always got everything she wanted.

  • Darren Fleming
    Darren Fleming Před 2 dny

    woah now, if your sarcasm has a tell then it isn't sarcasm, the whole point is to make it so unclear wether you're serious or not that they have to ask you or guess.

  • KawaiiPinkPunkStar
    KawaiiPinkPunkStar Před 2 dny +2

    She has THE worst attitude I have ever seen in any actor from the MCU. I feel uncomfortable watching the way she acts in these interviews. She kinda acts either superior or like the victim most of the time.

  • Madeline Rose
    Madeline Rose Před 2 dny +1

    anytime i watch these videos i think
    *vision must love this channel*

  • blahblah24681357
    blahblah24681357 Před 2 dny

    she needs therapy
    and i dont mean that as a personal attack ;p

  • Miko Darkblade
    Miko Darkblade Před 2 dny

    You're right.... BL used to be sort of likable... That was before the awards and surgeries. Now shes just insufferable. I mean I can't stand her at all.

  • 555katwoman666
    555katwoman666 Před 2 dny

    Maybe brie should have a stunt double for her sarcasm.

  • FluteCheerios
    FluteCheerios Před 2 dny

    I would give her a benefit of the doubt & say that, since it's probably a big movie for her.. she's probably not used to being around the rest of them, so maybe she feels a bit intimidated? & doesn't know how to present well to the rest of them.

  • L C
    L C Před 2 dny +1

    Until watching this video I never knew why most people misunderstand my dry sense of humor 😂

  • Wade Tan
    Wade Tan Před 2 dny

    Brie is so painful to watch BRUH

  • Catinkontti
    Catinkontti Před 2 dny

    I hate cheese and Brie is no exception.

  • mycherierose
    mycherierose Před 2 dny

    wow brie is a brat... she needs to learn how to handle herself, because she seems seethingly insecure

  • AA Productions
    AA Productions Před 2 dny

    Do you have some tips on how I can make my family understand that I'm not angry when I'm actually just excited to share something that I realized and want to hear what they have to say about it. You see, lately my parents and some siblings have been taking my enthusiasm, and wrongly interpreting it as "anger", when I'm not in fact angry at all. I should point out that I never had this problem with anyone else, but perhaps I'm unknowingly acting differently with my immediate family members, who knows? I do always try to add humor, and I'll even make fun of myself if I ever notice a problem in my logic because my goal is to find truth and not to "win" anything, and I personally don't like to hold any "opinions"/views, but rather to just have innocent curiosity and wonder, and to think about things without ever identifying with an "opinion" (as having "opinions" the way that most people do, seems like a lacking of honesty to me, for lack of a better way to explain it). And I had thought that it would be pretty clear from all that, that I'm not at all angry. I honestly don't know if it's me or them, because, like I said, I never have this issue with anyone outside my house, not with a significant other, not with friends, not with strangers, not anyone. Anyone who knows me can testify that I am a very friendly person and non judgmental of others (i.e. I never look down on people, or think that I'm somehow better than them, or anything like that) and kids always seem to love me. So yeah, who knows? Maybe I am indeed behaving differently with my immediate family, I don't know.
    But anyways, if you know any tips on how to make my enthusiasm more evident, and to make it clear to them that it isn't anger at all, that would be very helpful. Thanks!
    Trying to correct people's wrong assumptions can be exhausting sometimes. And I know that assumptions are actually part of evolution and quite necessary for survival, but when people believe them as if they are proven facts, especially in place of evidence to the contrary, I think that's where it can go wrong.
    Sometimes I feel that it would just be easier to let them all believe whatever they want and just not care, but the problem with that is that I can then get misdiagnosed and put on pills for a disorder that I don't even have, as has actually happened to me. Anyways, I'll shut up now.

  • Oreo and Oz
    Oreo and Oz Před 2 dny

    This is excellent. This channel has come a long a way since its first videos. Great work growing your content and viewership.

  • onaturalia
    onaturalia Před 2 dny

    Brie isn't funny. I think we all figured that out when she insulted a room full of journalists for being "men".