5 Common Habits That Make People Instantly Dislike You

  • čas přidán 6. 05. 2019
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    A few recent Brie Larson interviews have caught the attention of Marvel fans. People have asked if the cast doesn’t get along with Brie, and even as an audience member it’s hard to sit through some of these interviews without cringing.
    Today I will talk about what you can learn from these situations, and how to prevent yourself from doing specific behaviour patterns, that can make people dislike you without you even intending or even realizing it.

    0:41 - Issue #1: Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation.
    1:15 - Issue #2: Sarcasm requires a “tell”
    4:33 - Issue #3: Don’t jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself.
    7:15 - Issue #4: You should not try to win each moment of banter.
    9:53 - Issue #5: Handling a compliment improperly
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Komentáře • 25 327

  • Andrés Vieyra Machado
    Andrés Vieyra Machado Před 5 hodinami

    Exactly, may be not everyone want to be charismatic. We're more than mere charisma. And this channel goal and suggestion of being charismatic (apparently all the time) is kind of psychopatic.

  • Just Judah
    Just Judah Před 6 hodinami

    This has made me dislike her.

  • Ayrean
    Ayrean Před 9 hodinami

    She seemed 'normal' in previous interviews, but went uncomfortable when she were involved in her new SJW agenda. Lesson: do not mess your work with ideological agendas.

  • Ayrean
    Ayrean Před 9 hodinami

    Anyone else skipped the fragment intended to show her nice side?

  • Random
    Random Před 15 hodinami

    I did-liked her after finding out she had a stunt double, with a bigger peach. (Because hers' is flat.)

  • Gbrik74
    Gbrik74 Před 22 hodinami

    It’s easy, Brie is full of stinking brie, full of it.

  • Earla Weese
    Earla Weese Před dnem

    *1. Be black.*
    *2. Be a homosexual.*
    *3. Be yourself/be real - people like fake.*
    *4. When you smile too much vs. when you smile too little.*
    *5. Being too poor vs. being too rich.*
    *6. When you’re “too much” (in other words: when you aren’t being a slave or fitting into their agenda/narrative of what you should be)*
    *7. When you’re too positive/too negative.*
    *8. When you eat to fill up your stomach.*
    *9. When you’re too hot/too ugly - look how everyone else expects you to look or you’ll be stepped on.*
    *10. When you care about your own success - everyone expects you to care about them before you care about yourself.*

  • Brendan Scott
    Brendan Scott Před dnem

    I was actually excited when they announced Brie Larson for Captian Marvel, until I realized how much she changed from 21 Jump Street.

  • Rama
    Rama Před dnem +1

    She is an aries rising thats it.

  • Tekkenbd26fan D
    Tekkenbd26fan D Před dnem

    Captain Marvel isn’t stronger than Thor based off the source material ugh 😑... it seems like ...

  • not left blank not left blank

    Is the CHclip suggestion algorithm a little too good? One of the suggestion videos was entitled: "Recognize and Avoid Women Who Are Damaged Goods" That's a bit scary.

  • Devin Isreal
    Devin Isreal Před dnem +1

    Why don’t they teach this in school?

  • Sean Martinez
    Sean Martinez Před dnem

    Screw you haters brie Larson is amazing i love her sarcasm

  • Mr and Mr Smith
    Mr and Mr Smith Před dnem

    Society = Be yourself
    Society = No not like that.

  • Kim T
    Kim T Před dnem

    THis is helpful. After being in the PTO for several years, I've dealt with parents, teachers, and kids in many different situations. They all are very emotional and like to feel that they are ALL SPECIAL. It's exhausting dealing with these personalities, but I have learned a lot. I had no idea how nervous the parents are, how clueless the kids are, and how tired the teachers are. I have a whole new respect for teachers. Especially since there are so many special needs/needing help or attention out there nowadays, how they keep up with all this, it is tough. And the Moms are much more aggressive nowadays from what I remember growing up. Teachers should be paid way more than they are.

  • shurdi3
    shurdi3 Před 2 dny

    If you want to go over the top while keeping the deadpan delivery, go over the top in your story
    You can go "do I workout? Of course I do. I work out every single waking hour. I'm working out right now, I worked out on the bus here...still can't workout what 7 times 17 is though"

  • 2011Account22
    2011Account22 Před 2 dny

    This whole video was just damage control for this horrible actress.

  • John Boscogolvitch
    John Boscogolvitch Před 2 dny

    I can't understand anything that English guy says either.

  • John Boscogolvitch
    John Boscogolvitch Před 2 dny

    Who is Brie?

  • Charlie Ricottone
    Charlie Ricottone Před 2 dny

    Brie Larson is like the Sansa Stark of the MCU. An unexciting, insecure wet rag.

  • Jan Vincente
    Jan Vincente Před 2 dny

    we get it, your viewers have no emotional intelligence.... next!!!

  • Ten Second BuickGN
    Ten Second BuickGN Před 2 dny

    Passive aggressive Libra who takes herself way too seriously. Pretty easy to diagnose lol

  • TrevelyanOO6
    TrevelyanOO6 Před 2 dny

    Before Captain Marvel, I had never heard of Brie Larson (TBH I could say that of a lot of MCU stars inc. Chris Hemsworth before Thor). However the current Brie and the one in the old interview clips seem like two different people; what happened to her?

  • Ricky Davies
    Ricky Davies Před 3 dny

    The issue is Americans just dont get sarcasm 😂

  • Rancid Cookie
    Rancid Cookie Před 3 dny

    did anyone just scream when they saw Molly Hooper from Sherlock

  • CPFS
    CPFS Před 3 dny

    Simple. Brie Larson is a pompous, self-absorbed egotist. Period.

  • LR Vogt
    LR Vogt Před 3 dny

    I think her dry delivery is funny and that this video makes good general points but she’s just fine

  • Ecuador Lounge
    Ecuador Lounge Před 3 dny

    Brie Larson has 100% of NO CHARISMA

  • Ecuador Lounge
    Ecuador Lounge Před 3 dny

    Brie Larson has 100% of NO CHARISMA

  • MW est
    MW est Před 3 dny

    Tooting your own horn, arrogance and constant complaining and whining are the top most annoying traits that make me dislike someone.

  • Kuroi Games
    Kuroi Games Před 4 dny

    4:05 "Everyone's laughing and I can't understand what he said" - Guy then proceeds to say something absolutely uncomprehensible whatsoever lol

  • Katie Scott
    Katie Scott Před 4 dny

    Could you do something like this about Adam Driver???

  • lei bau
    lei bau Před 4 dny

    but all of your POINTS were Good

  • Anna Lowson
    Anna Lowson Před 4 dny

    “Can Captain Marvel beat Superman?” NO.

  • Zefra
    Zefra Před 5 dny

    Wow she's as obnoxious as she was in endgame

  • SweetCupcake
    SweetCupcake Před 5 dny

    Brie shouldn't be an actress it doesn't suit her personality... At all she is sooo ummm... I don't even know

  • Granit
    Granit Před 5 dny

    It's sad because I like her as Captain Marvel...

  • DumbF*ck Productions
    DumbF*ck Productions Před 5 dny +1

    1. Never be a liberal

  • Ed
    Ed Před 5 dny

    Good lord, why did I click on Cheesy Larson? I must be loosing my mind.

  • Dracox3d
    Dracox3d Před 5 dny

    maybe she's autistic lol

  • smokeylovexx
    smokeylovexx Před 6 dny

    Am I the only person watching this to learn how to be a normal human being lmfao

  • 3MM4 P33L
    3MM4 P33L Před 6 dny

    Brie SUX

  • Enigma O'Dell
    Enigma O'Dell Před 6 dny

    assume positive intent. hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. i'll give it a shot.

  • Justin Kim
    Justin Kim Před 6 dny +1

    Shes like that one chick we all know and avoid.

  • Adriana H.
    Adriana H. Před 6 dny +1

    SHe's so obnoxious

  • Dan Watts
    Dan Watts Před 7 dny +1

    what's that on Brie's shoulder ?
    looks like a chip ?

  • Monkeesh
    Monkeesh Před 7 dny

    so like um...... uptight?

  • First Last
    First Last Před 7 dny +1

    I just think she’s lame

  • Hobbyman TV
    Hobbyman TV Před 7 dny +2

    I think you give Brie way more benefit of doubt than people usually do. :)

  • Amy Gordon-Fohl
    Amy Gordon-Fohl Před 7 dny

    I mean... The thumbnail was reason enough.
    But who am I to say? I'm from Wisconsin. I *usually* love cheese...

  • Jpriest13
    Jpriest13 Před 8 dny +1

    I honestly don't think Brie's "sarcasm" is too subtle. It doesn't exist. If she was ever being sarcastic and not defensive, she could recognize other's sarcasm....and she doesn't. Sarcasm takes intelligence, and emotion (because there are some other things going on in there) and she seems to possess intelligence and emotion in quite small commodities.

  • Terran Dysart
    Terran Dysart Před 8 dny +1

    I think she has taken self confidence and become consumed by it and it has really just turned into self worshiping. She's so obsessed with herself she looks for the negative in whatever people say to her. This is what sociologists have labeled "Bitchy"

  • Addy Styles
    Addy Styles Před 8 dny

    I actually saw Brie first in 21 Jump Street , she was sweet back then , what happened now ?

  • Bon
    Bon Před 8 dny +2

    She doesnt need people to like her... Fakof will ya

  • Bag Head
    Bag Head Před 8 dny

    uuugh Brie is so unlikeable, it actually made me not watch her movie. thanks for clearing out why, what mistakes she makes.

  • Saadon Aksah
    Saadon Aksah Před 8 dny

    well sounds great!

  • Dirk Bastardrelief
    Dirk Bastardrelief Před 8 dny

    Girl need to take a cheew peew. Unlax and rewind. Otherwise she fightin a upheew battle.

  • Sean Lundberg
    Sean Lundberg Před 8 dny

    I think you're reading into the Wired interview just as much as the people who don't like it. The Wired Google things are inherently casual and usually tongue-in-cheek, and I think that's conveyed pretty clearly. You analyzing whether she is legitimately upset or not, even from an even-keeled analytical perspective, feels like it's in the same zone as people who were annoyed by it because they thought it was real. To them and to you, my reaction is, "Why do you care?"
    I said something similar in your Jimmy Fallon video, this doesn't really feel applicable to me. The way you frame it, it feels like you're specifically telling Brie Larson how to do better interviews. A broad audience on CHclip, there are so many specific things that it feels like it misses the mark. Maybe you're just coming at it from another angle. But from what I've seen, you would do better as an actor's agent than a CHclipr. I think you have an advantageous perspective on how performances are perceived. But your average commenter can't do anything about that, nor is that how they take in their media, so it feels irrelevant. I can have an opinion about an actor in movies and shows. But how they interview? What am I supposed to do with that? What good is an opinion on how well someone interviews unless they can specifically advise it? Pointing that out only incites more reason to dislike them. And if somebody who watches this video gains something positive to say, what, they're supposed to email Brie Larson and suggest how to be not so fake in interviews? "Hi I'm Joe Schmoe Shally Sally from Nebrahoma, Nowhere, and I think your charisma in interviews could be better conveyed and here's why."
    Your commentary feels productive for people who aren't watching this. Agents and producers. For people who are watching, it feels like it's intended for someone else. That's my take.

  • Ronald Thornton
    Ronald Thornton Před 8 dny +1

    I feel like Brie just doesn't deliver sarcasm well. 😅

  • Matthew
    Matthew Před 9 dny

    Your right she's not perfect for hollywood