How To Turn Anxiety Into Charisma

  • čas přidán 10. 06. 2019
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    After watching an interview on Jimmy Fallon where Sophie Turner comes across as very charismatic, I started looking into doing a breakdown on her. I was surprised to find that she actually says she struggles in social situations.
    On the second watch through, I noticed that hints of nervousness were present in that first Jimmy Fallon interview. So in this video, we’re going to learn what it seems Sophie has learned: how to turn anxiety, shyness, and nervousness into charisma.

    4:34 - Strategy #1: Active listening
    4:50 - Strategy #2: Mirroring
    6:00 - Strategy #3: Elaborate on someone else’s idea
    6:31 - Strategy #4: Make fun of your own shyness
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Komentáře • 2 967

  • Charisma on Command
    Charisma on Command  Před 3 měsíci +438

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    • Connor Ramone
      Connor Ramone Před 18 dny

      Baffulnish can even crosh over into shynesh

    • vitral es montaña
      vitral es montaña Před měsícem

      "you're an icon" it's BS, nobody is an icon, having icons is what's wrong in today's society

    • coldflame
      coldflame Před 2 měsíci

      @5dope I am your dearest.

    • coldflame
      coldflame Před 2 měsíci

      @5dope Dearest honeybunches, May I end up wherever you & yours aren't.

  • don cahooti
    don cahooti Před dnem

    when I see people “mirror” me I become really pissed off at the
    disingenuousness and attempt to manipulate..

  • Secret Guy
    Secret Guy Před 3 dny

    In that red dress she looks like Natalia Starr.

  • Secret Guy
    Secret Guy Před 3 dny

    My anxiety level is a 10/10. It's nothing on Sophie Turner's.

  • MSi
    MSi Před 5 dny

    It is just because she is new in holywood she just been picked up and suddenly famous .. dat's normal thing she is now known invited everywhee.. etc.. and it is the person shy .. so such person IN THAT time unimaginably lightning speed thinking what to say
    Even jenifer lawrence was shy then she was cocky and stucked up later on ..

  • Lilian Rose
    Lilian Rose Před 5 dny

    How to turn anxiety into charisma?

  • maddyjul07
    maddyjul07 Před 6 dny +1

    Can you plz do a video like this but with Timothée Chalamet?

  • Ahmed Mahmoud
    Ahmed Mahmoud Před 6 dny

    Watching this videos in college....god help me lol

  • Shauna-Marie Henry
    Shauna-Marie Henry Před 6 dny

    Or, I could be kind and a good human being..?

  • D
    D Před 7 dny

    My social anxiety makes me PLUS ULTRA

  • LTrain 45
    LTrain 45 Před 9 dny +1

    I have never seen game of thrones and didn't know who Sophie was before this video. She is hands down the most beautiful person I have ever seen.

  • Megan Morales
    Megan Morales Před 10 dny

    You need to make Harry Styles video

  • OrdonWolf
    OrdonWolf Před 12 dny +1

    I don't consider myself a good conversationalist, but... watching this made me realise that I've used some of these tricks countless times. But my self-doubt is so great, I still didn't really know if people liked me for it even when their reactions should have made it obvious...
    Thank you for helping me see that, I don't have to focus on the negatives ALL the time.

  • Aaron Asmus
    Aaron Asmus Před 14 dny +1

    She is my favorite actress from Game of throwns. Why am i a little sad she is married now?

  • Jordan
    Jordan Před 15 dny

    Sophie Turner is a goddess.

  • zeroceiling
    zeroceiling Před 17 dny

    Well...then you say almost the opposite about the enigmatic Robert Downey Jr. Good idea is to simply let us see the unique tapestry for human behavior...of which...only little at times relates to us directly.

  • Prajakta Borwankar
    Prajakta Borwankar Před 17 dny

    A video on character analysis of " transformation " of Aria N Stark ... plz

  • Connor Ramone
    Connor Ramone Před 18 dny

    Baffulnish can even crosh over into shynesh

  • Grace X
    Grace X Před 19 dny

    This was so incredibly helpful. Thank you so much 😊

  • The Ark-Ham Sandwich
    The Ark-Ham Sandwich Před 19 dny

    I've been watching you guys' videos for a long time and now there's a link to this video in my class's textbook. You guys have really come a long way and it's awesome to see. Keep up the great work.

  • Beauty on a Barn Budget

    Sooo crazy. My daughter is 18 and looks EXACTLY like sophie in sansa character. She's a natural redhead. We didn't watch GOT & a few years ago when people would yell "Sansa! Or Sophie!" At our daughter, we were like-"who are these people & why do people think u r them???

  • FeatheryBird
    FeatheryBird Před 20 dny +1

    Oh sure if you're a beautiful young girl, otherwise, buck up everybody....

  • Underdog666
    Underdog666 Před 21 dnem

    I used cognitive behavioral therapy to almost completely cure my anxiety and absolutely kill at exams - my resource was Morty Lefkoe - changed everything

  • f fs
    f fs Před 22 dny

    this is what works for me. Step 1: Drink triple/quadriple (maybe more) vodkas. 2. eat mints.
    3. Then watch how to lose weight after you put weight on and lose the weight.
    Step 4: Repeat

  • roy york
    roy york Před 22 dny +1

    Natural Nasal Breathing Pushes the Body System towards a ( Calm Parasympathetic Response ), and away from Fight , Freeze or Anxious Tendencies. peace 🎼🎧🎼👌

  • Wynn Horton
    Wynn Horton Před 23 dny

    i don't wanna try this hard. Accept me as i am, damn yu all

  • Matthias Cerebri
    Matthias Cerebri Před 24 dny

    There are of course people that dont have anymore Power over us. Like Blofeld. Or Moriarti. Or Negan. Or especially this very ugly mungo pokemon with a childs brain inside white Walls that we call... whats his name... Trump!
    You did an amazing job to give me the Courage to say that

  • Tehreem Raza
    Tehreem Raza Před 25 dny +1

    Imagine how uncomfortable she feels being part of the "J-Sisters" 😂😂😂

  • Demers
    Demers Před 27 dny

    From the comments I have deduced that EVERYONE has anxiety. Yaaaay!!!

  • timowthie
    timowthie Před 29 dny

    Why is she married at such a young age.

  • Julian Delgadillo
    Julian Delgadillo Před měsícem

    I can feel you're a really calibrated and socially aware human being, you have learned so much for sure, and thank you so much for sharing this content with us and having such a positive and nice vibe, you're amazing thank you

  • Eillwinnas2
    Eillwinnas2 Před měsícem

    2:31 "And the biggest movie: Dark Phoenix!" Jimmy, this hasn't aged well

  • DaveD
    DaveD Před měsícem

    DARE by Barry McDonagh is the best book out there for anxiety and panic attack. Look it up. It saved my life.

  • Gal Zeidman
    Gal Zeidman Před měsícem

    There's one thing this video doesn't tell you. There is a one, very simple, and most effective trick to turning anxiety into charisma. It is an easy, simple technique, that Sophie actually utilizes very well, and Im going to give it to you right now: all you have to do is be so beautiful, that people melt when you are smiling at them. that's it, that's all. just try this and you won't believe how you have never tried it before.
    Good luck everyone,
    you can thank me later.

  • TheLM
    TheLM Před měsícem

    I don’t find her charismatic but more annoying.. sorry my opinion

  • Joseph Dember
    Joseph Dember Před měsícem

    How to turn anxiety into charisma: step 1, be gorgeous, sexy, naturally charismatic. step 2.........

  • Leanne Mo
    Leanne Mo Před měsícem

    2:15: "And sometimes that 'bathfull-nish' can even 'crosh" over..." Cute mispronunciation. Subbed. :)

  • Trevor
    Trevor Před měsícem

    I know that it's illegal, but this video gave me anxiety.
    Still liked it tho

  • Zelda Wolff
    Zelda Wolff Před měsícem

    My boyfriend sent me this lol. We could both learn from this

  • Alpha Pérez
    Alpha Pérez Před měsícem

    Love your channel!

  • Blue Steel
    Blue Steel Před měsícem

    Damn, she is married at 23? Divorce before 30 incoming.

  • Melissa Brock
    Melissa Brock Před měsícem

    Do Aubrey plaza

  • ChickenToast26
    ChickenToast26 Před měsícem

    "Sometime that bafulnesh can even crosh over into shyness"

  • Weerdouu
    Weerdouu Před měsícem +1

    I don't know... I'm shy and low confident until I get used to the person talking to me....

  • X33R00S - aka the gentleman
    X33R00S - aka the gentleman Před měsícem

    people used to call me a snowman, don't be suprised when i jump up with a beer right near you, soo we can celebrate my newfound camouflage ;)

  • Natalia Díaz Vásquez
    Natalia Díaz Vásquez Před měsícem

    Please make more videos for introverts!! 🙏🏽 this was awesome!

  • Vafuðr
    Vafuðr Před měsícem

    I can't take famous millionaires seriously when they appear on Dr.Phil and complain that they're depressed.

  • mizanur sakib
    mizanur sakib Před měsícem

    after the video end I try to recall what techniques you actually pointed to.. 😂😂

  • MademoiselleFelicia
    MademoiselleFelicia Před měsícem

    Could you do Candice Swanepoel? She’s so charismatic even though she’s actually really shy! ☺️☺️

  • Ashley C
    Ashley C Před měsícem

    Sophie: “Y’all done exposing me now?”

  • Wellington Almeida
    Wellington Almeida Před měsícem +2

    Shall we just ignore she's gorgeous, right? You can get away with anything with that face.

  • Sarah Jones
    Sarah Jones Před měsícem

    watching this video makes me realize that i’ve been doing *everything wrong*

  • New Damage
    New Damage Před měsícem +1

    I mean if I were doing Sophie Turner I would imagine the charisma would come naturally.

  • hello hey
    hello hey Před měsícem +1

    It helps that she looks the way she does

    ICS VORTEX Před měsícem

    3:06 can you hear it?

  • greenartisticfiend
    greenartisticfiend Před měsícem +13

    Can you please do AUBREY PLAZA?? She is the only one who embraces her deadpan personality

  • Noob Gaming
    Noob Gaming Před měsícem

    4:50 you mean *SOPHIE-sticated*

  • John Dolan
    John Dolan Před měsícem +4

    owning one's shyness is more socially acceptable for woman than men

    • Hello Boy
      Hello Boy Před měsícem

      Yeah, men should be outgoing

  • Danny Dazzler
    Danny Dazzler Před měsícem

    Why 2 adverts CHclip?

  • Nurah Smith
    Nurah Smith Před měsícem

    This channel is really helping as I go through my mid life change